Boys...

Ahh, I believe every lady should just take a moment to boy bash, just about exes, exes that did you wrong, exes that just did some stupid ass stuff that STILL has your ass sayin "wtf?!", and exes that are just plan dumb!

Yes, they are our exes for a reason, and guess what ladies, it's THEIR lost (unless your ass did some stupid shit too, it's not only the fellas who can get that low!!)

Anyways, my friend A and I had a nice little 'boy bashing' talk today, these boys think they're men. They think you're so dumb, that you don't see the obvious right in front of our faces, they leave you for a whore that's been around the block, downtown, down the street, across the country and BACK...TWICE (and they know it), they say that they don't want you any more but constantly call you, they cheat on you and then want you back, (why don't you just go see that hoe u cheated on me with!!?!), they cheat on you when you have an 8 month old baby WITH a married hoe with 2 kids and then come and say, let me see my damn baby, (bitch go see that hoe's babies that you cheated on me with!). Why do men, boys play these games? Why do men cheat? Why isn't the woman you're with ever really good enough? I really think that those are some questions that will never have a good enough answer.


I seriously, from the bottom of my heart hope that they grow up, and get themselves and their lives better, because although they're assholes/jerks/little boys in a grown man's body, they're still human and i just hope and pray for the best for them. even though they probably hope and pray for the worst for me and us, it's okay, i've always been taught to be the bigger person and *kill em with kindness* no matter how hard they try to hurt you..

So for my ladies out there that's going through tough times, just keep your head up!! Don't ever let a boy see or make you cry! If they were the right ones for you, they wouldn't make you cry! They would be there to dry any tears, and then kick the person's ass who made you cry!! Don't be down after you're man cheated (or after a break up), even though that's real hard to say, but they're just not worth moping around for a week, just wasting your time and energy...take that energy and go pamper yourselves with your girls! Go see a chick flick!! Go shake your ass!! And who knows, you might even meet some future potentials =] But of course, there's nothing wrong with eating a half a pound of ice cream WHILE you watch the movie with your girls, as long as you're having fun and it takes your mind off the bad stuff!




Don't dwell on the past, Just learn from it!




xox