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What's so wrong with same sex marriage? People act like gays/lesbians aren't human, they're being treated like a different species. Who has the right to tell someone, gay straight black white, whom to get married to? For those who don't believe in same sex marriage, do you think interracial marriage is wrong too? Gimme some opinions.
I posted this question on my FB and got 50 responses, mostly by the same girl. But here's some sample opinions that I got.
Rae:Who defines who's allowed to be with who because at one point black people couldn't get married and to me it's just like that...discrimination. Another thing I'll never understand is gay couples adopting children. So a drug addict can go ahead and have a kid and a mother on ... Read More welfare can be allowed to have 14 kids but a stable couple cannot adopt a child and take them out of state care into a loving home because they're both the same sex...? I see a problem with that. I mean I understand too that people have their religious beliefs and I completely respect that but for those people when was the last time a gay couple actually did something to them? Did it really affect their lives other than making them mad?
Jamar:Religion and Legislature should never mix. Its in our constitution first of all. Your beliefs should not govern over anothers convictions. Being married doesnt harm you and these days if you can get two PEOPLE period to stay together, thats a miracle in itself.
Steph:Homosexuality is a demonic spirit that one has to be freed from
That was just one of the many many disturbing things she was saying, i wish you all could friend me on facebook so you could see the things she was saying
Just a quick FYI, ya'll have GOT to go see the Hangover.
This movie is hilarious, I haven't laughed so much watching a movie in such a loOoOng time! LoL
Go see it!! lol
Hey Peoples...
Tomorrow is the day that I finally get my surgery! I'll admit, I am a little nervous! But it's more of an excited nervous!!
I've been waiting to get this for such a long time!! And the day is almost finally here!!
Since I'll be out for a good week or so, I'll be able to probably pay more attention to my blog, and gather some more followers!! And then also maybe get a good theme to my blog. Cuz right now, I feel like it's all over the place!! Haha, I'll just find some help with that!
Anyways, today is my brother's 33rd Birthday!! Happy BDay to him!! He's great! And some fam is over so I'm gonna stop being anti social and be with them
Have a great Sunday folks!!
p.s.
I had a riveting question of the day on my facebook on friday, i may have to make it the question of the day tomorrow...hopefully i'll get some good responces!! Looking forward to it!! =]
xox
On this day in history,Edward White became the first American to walk in space?!
This post was originally posted June 13th 2008 by yours truly =]Ahh, I believe every lady should just take a moment to boy bash, just about exes, exes that did you wrong, exes that just did some stupid ass stuff that STILL has your ass sayin 'wtf?!', and exes that are just plan dumb!
Yes, they are our exes for a reason, and guess what ladies, it's THEIR lost (unless your ass did some stupid shit too, it's not only the fellas who can get that low!!)
Anyways, my friend A and I had a nice little 'boy bashing' talk today, these boys think they're men. They think you're so dumb, that you don't see the obvious right in front of our faces, they leave you for a whore that's been around the block, downtown, down the street, across the country and BACK...TWICE (and they know it), they say that they don't want you any more but constantly call you, they cheat on you and then want you back, (why don't you just go see that hoe u cheated on me with!!?!), they cheat on you when you have an 8 month old baby WITH a married hoe with 2 kids and then come and say, let me see my damn baby, (bitch go see that hoe's babies that you cheated on me with!). Why do men, boys play these games? Why do men cheat? Why isn't the woman you're with ever really good enough? I really think that those are some questions that will never have a good enough answer.
I seriously, from the bottom of my heart hope that they grow up, and get themselves and their lives better, because although they're assholes/jerks/little boys in a grown man's body, they're still human and i just hope and pray for the best for them. even though they probably hope and pray for the worst for me and us, it's okay, i've always been taught to be the bigger person and *kill em with kindness* no matter how hard they try to hurt you..
So for my ladies out there that's going through tough times, just keep your head up!! Don't ever let a boy see or make you cry! If they were the right ones for you, they wouldn't make you cry! They would be there to dry any tears, and then kick the person's ass who made you cry!! Don't be down after you're man cheated (or after a break up), even though that's real hard to say, but they're just not worth moping around for a week, just wasting your time and energy...take that energy and go pamper yourselves with your girls! Go see a chick flick!! Go shake your ass!! And who knows, you might even meet some future potentials =] But of course, there's nothing wrong with eating a half a pound of ice cream WHILE you watch the movie with your girls, as long as you're having fun and it takes your mind off the bad stuff!
Don't dwell on the past, Just learn from it!
Hey Guys, hope all is well for you all. I have a few questions for ya'll. Hopefully I'll get some answers that make sence.
1. Why do men cheat?
2. Why do men think that they will get away with cheating when they should know that it will come back and bite them on the ass?
3. Do men get a kick out of how many girls they can pull in a certain time frame?--When they have a girl friend?
4. Why have a wifey and still have girls on the side? (Don't give me that why have the main course and nothing on the side bs)
5. Why do you think we ladies should take you back over and over?
6. Why do men tell lies? (Don't give me that, 'lies can spare feelings bs)
7. Do men enjoy it when ladies cry over them? And my ladies, please don't cry over dudes! Cuz they sure as hell don't care to cry over us...what do they do? go out and chose another girl to mess with for the night.
Anyways, i'm gonna go find an old old old blog that i wrote a while back on myspace and post it here...i'll be back...
xox
Heeey Young World!!
So it's been a minute since I've shown some love!!
This past semester was great...I cut down on the partying a lil bit..well..a lot a bit lol and it all paid off because I made it to the Dean's List!!! Whooo Hooo!! Congrats again to me! Hard work pays off folks! If you have a goal in mind, work hard on it, stay focused, and you can achieve it!! =]
So lets see...Memorial Weekend...was great! There's a picture of me and my friends and Pretty Ricky some where out there..those nigs are tiiny!! I wasn't even wearing heels and I was still lookin kinda down at them lol so cute! But those are some freaky skinny little boys lol...and speaking of little, I also saw Weezy F Baaaby pllleease say the Babaay. haha He's little too, but I only got to see him from across the street, too many future baby momma wannabes crowding around his ass. yuck. Speaking of future baby mommas, is it true that my girl Lauren London is preggo by him?! Damn I hope not..that's gonna be one interesting lookin child. Anyways..moving on...
I found out soo much shit that weekend. You see, I'm a little bit of a loner, and when I wanna leave some place, I'll leave and just go chill by myself, and that's the reason why I ALWAYS drive myself to the clubs. But this past weekend, and it seems like every single 'beach holiday' (spring break, labor day weekend, memorial etc) a friend of mine always starts to act up. Her other friends from high school comes in town and she's a whole different person. We did go to the same high school, but we def hung around different cliques. So this past weekend, we were gonna all meet up, but I of course was already out on the beach chillin with some other peoples, and then it started to pour! so bad..so so bad. so this made the traffic even worse, so when I call her to see where she's at, she calls herself fussing at me on the phone, mind you her friend is also in the car, so wtf, what's she doin showin out? So they got me, we found a spot like mad close, and they went to pay, and then I left..Just telling them that I wanted to go change, since I was staying on the beach that weekend. So as I was walkin down 8th, I literally run into my other friends from my school!
So I decided to roll with them to Fat Burger. So good..the actual food, not the service. But that's another blog. That was one of the better conversations I had had that entire weekend. We spoke about another mutual friend of ours and her terrible antics..she really needs to stop while she's ahead. I mean, how can someone sleep with 3 out of 4 in a suite, all on the football team? That's nothing folks, this girl sleeps with so many guys on the team, her ass better stay friendly or else they will tell her shit to everyone..but it's not like people already don't know. This girl is just nasty, I used to call her my friend up until earlier that day when I chilled with her for like a minute. She craves attention, she's one of those that brags about how many times she gave her number away one night at a club, she brags about who she met and what team they play for, if she feels she's not getting enough attention from certain folks, she'll make the attention go straight to her, for example, walking with only your bikini on on the strip, but I clearly remember a time when she did this.
Last year, memorial weekend, I don't know why so many nigs were tryin to holla at me, lol. Some dude asked me to marry him, twice, and I was wearing this yellow dress type thing, nigs were hollerin 'heey sexy yellow', 'heey there bumble bee', etc etc..so little miss thang decided that she wasn't getting enough attention, so after getting into a shitty mood, she decided to alter her dress...by taking down the top and draping it so that it was half way off, with her extra revealing bikini top showing. And then that's when her mood got better when a few nigs started to holla. Lame. Why does some one crave this much attention? It's not always a good thing!
So anyways, as I mentioned earlier, she sleeps with way too many guys, she needs to get tested. So does the entire football team and every bitch that's been fucking with them! I personally get tested every 6 months even when I'm not active. That shit can stay quiet for a while! That's nothing to play with!
So in order to preserve my 'rep' I can no longer chill with her. You know what they say, birds of a feather flock together...psshh not this bird! This bird flies solo!
The next day, I met up with a newish friend, I had never really chilled with her before but her and her other friend were real cool. When we were eatin at Johnny Rockets, they mentioned some things about the girls I was eatin with the day before!! This is such a small world..and that may not be a good thing.
But what I remember from what she said is that, I have to choose my friends wisely, and that I make my own friend decisions. So basically, what my Dad has been telling me for years to "Not trust Anybody" is true. After 21 years, I'm finally figuring that out. I mean I'll have my friends, my homies, but I can't trust them as far as I can throw them..how ever that goes. And you know, it's sad, but everyone has some bad and stupid shit they've done in the past, and if they choose not to tell me, then that's fine, it's all said and done and no need to bring it up like a warning or something you know?
Unnecessary bs. But anyways, my Memorial Weekend was filled with information that I needed to take with me, and think about. And I've learned not to be so naive when it comes to the black folks at my school..now I understand what my older friends told me about talkin too much to the black people at my school. I mean since it's such a small population of us, everyone is going to be in everyone else's business!! Shit sucks but that's life!
That's life.
